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Please share your experience with heterosexual dating stigma with HIV+male and HIV-female. Are females willing to date someone who is + undetectable?
I am a man Heterosexual, who is on this site. I have dated none HIV women mostly. Never once did anyone become positives the study has shown. I did disclose to my girlfriends, we looked at all the data online together. I showed them my labs, I have been Undetectable since I started my med treatment program. It's all about trust, honesty, reliable information and the science. Yes, the most important thing, LOVE, because it's why I am here, to build an honest trusting relationship.
Posted on Dec 04, 2020
Hi, I'm a female and joined late November 2020. There was a male HIV member who reached out to me but I told him that I wouldn't be his ideal person. I explained to him that he stated on his profile that he wanted someone who (don't quote me) can relate. Over time, I realized I was treating the HIV males unfairly. Now, I'm open to get to know someone who is HIV positive. I've only pressed the heart icon to one HIV positive but then again, he was from another state. Idk if he's even interested 🤷🏼♀️ I haven't heard from him.
Posted on Sep 06, 2020
Don't get your hopes up. - women will not even respond to someone who is + on here.
Its so funny that you would post this. I recently on saw on tv that you can test +undetectable for HIV and I was amazed. They have come so far in the treatment of HIV but seem to have stopped doing anything on Herpes (my issue). Now the whole world is working on a Covid19 vaccine with trials in rapid response mode. The HIV person would have to build significant trust with a person and be very consistent with taking meds I think would be my answer.There are a lot of very nice looking young men on this site with HIV. I wish there was a specific forum for your to discuss with other men to learn about their experiences, that would be beneficial and supportive. I would like to speak with other women to see what their experiences have been on the site. This site does not offer an opportunity for that to take place. Its only concerned with making money.